While visiting one of my closest friends (who is about to become a father) I asked him how he was doing and how the mother was. He responded by saying, "i am good and my girl is also good. I then asked him if he was scared of the new born baby that's coming on the way. He Then responded by saying, "i'm a little scared but i am ready to have this baby and i will do everything to give it a good life and keep it healthy." This came as a shock to me because he is only 17 and most teenagers would be fraking out looking for a way out of having that baby.
Another person i decided 2 interview was my older sisters friend who has given birth. She seemed like she didn't want to answer any questions so i kept the questions at a minimal. However one of the questions i did ask was how was the birth process like? She replies by saying, Giving birth was one of the most depressing times and was so much to deal with. And i wish that i could have gotten more support from the baby's father and my family." After hearing this i couldn't help but feel bad for her because she had to go through all of that. So then i decided to ask her how her child is and she replied she is good and very beautiful. The Strange thing i didn't understand was even though she had a hard time while pregnant she seemed to be happy she had a child.
So this lead to my conclusion being that some people are luckier than others. However one thing in common that everyone goes through is through Emotional problems. All of these people i spoke to are pro-choice and support the option of abortion, because they think that some pregnancy's are accidents and just happen. So they shouldn't suffer for a mistake. Also all of the people i talked to do think birth is a beautiful thing. They think it's the most beautiful thing of life.
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